“I get way too sensitive when I get attached to someone. I can detect the slightest changed in the tone of their voice, and suddenly I’m spending all day trying to figure out what I did wrong.”— Brandon Stanton (via perrfectly)
when ur like “im gettin a gay vibe” and your straight friend is like “uhhh idk that seems….forced….” and u gotta pull out your fuckin phd from gay college and your private gay detective license and your federal bureau of investigaytion badge like sit fuckin down buddy i got credentials and also an opinion the truth is out there my guy
(Source: portmantaur)
have a relationship thats mature enough to sit down and be like “ look this is our problem and this is how we’re gonna fix it..” SIMPLE
(Source: hipstered)
reminder that your eating disorder is still valid even if:
- you dont think it is
- you’ve never been underweight
- you are weight restored
- you are at a ‘normal’ weight
- you are overweight/obese
- you’ve never had to go to inpatient or residential
- you do not have a restrictive ed
- you do not use the behaviors most commonly associated with eds
- you do not have ‘fear foods’
- you don’t like oatmeal or those foods people are always taking pics of
- you like food and are fine owning that
- you hate working out or dont work out
- you’ve never restricted/binged/purged
- you’ve never been through anything that you feel validates your ed
- you dont have any ed horror stories
- you feel like your ed isnt as serious as someone else’s
- you dont feel sick enough
- your loved ones do not know
- your loved ones do not believe you
- your loved ones are not helping you get the help you need
- your struggle looks different than the ones portrayed by the media
- you are triggered by different things than most
- you are not triggered by others
- your recovery isn’t proving to be as difficult as its portrayed
- your recovery is going ‘quickly’
your recovery is going smoothly- you are progressing in your recovery
- you dont want to recover
- you consciously developed your ed
- you are not actively using behaviors today/now/anymore
Bless
It’s important that you keep your feelings and your self worth in different places because when feelings get hurt it shouldn’t change how you view yourself.
